First Friday

Every Wednesday from September through May we attend a rigorous choir rehearsal for two hours at Raleigh’s Holy Name of Jesus Cathedral. We arrive home at our usual retire-to-the-bedroom time, far too wired to think about climbing into bed for some quick reading and lights out. (We’re old, and heck, I’ve been turning out the lights between 9:30-10 p.m. for the past 30 years.) At our age, staying up another two hours or so, as we do, is akin to traveling a couple time zones to the west. We wake up a bit fazed, disoriented, run down—more so if we indulged a nightcap the night before. Several years ago, we realized that our attitudes toward the next day resembled how we used to think of Fridays: no big responsibilities faced us the remainder of the week, particularly after noon; we usually felt like knocking off early and grabbing a drink; it seemed to be a day just made to relax and have fun. Therefore…First Friday was born, the opening act to Second Friday, Real Friday, harbinger of the weekend.

Today’s particularly fuzzy: it seemed a good time to write an ode to the day.

Our first First Friday of the season. September 2026.
First Friday, A-K-A Thursday,
when all your cares dissipate,
dissolved in to-do tasks left
unfinished. Thursday greets
Wednesday's final push to
birth Accomplishment with,
"so what?" and "what's minimal?"
Creeping emotionally
on hands, knees, you find
one singular moment,
Accomplisment balanced
against Surrender; do you
give in to the latter at
two or at four, because it
always ends that way,
doesn't it? Energies
wind down. First Friday
knows Second Friday,
"Real" Friday will take
up slack, relishing her
finish-with-a-bang
sense of theatrics,
her role as Gateway
to Weekend. Thursday
smugly smiles. Her
finish occurred
before her start.


79/100
100 poems in 100 days (and that’s three more weeks!)

Rüdesheim

One of the several species of waterfowl we saw while moored at Rüdesheim, Germany. August 2025.

River cruising resembles train travel: you journey from Here to There but don’t have to do the driving yourself. One thus experiences the journey. (Flying lacks this: one experiences only the point of departure and the destination. The experience of travel disappears, lost in abstract non-motion at 30,000+ feet.) Our afternoon cruising capped our morning in Speyer, just right for my still-recovering wife. Once moored at Rüdesheim, we chatted with the local ducks and enjoyed fine beverages. For me, that included this delightful Schwarzbier from Köstritzer.